作者	Dan Saferstein
出版社	Hyperion
出版时间	2000-06-14

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You don't have to wait for someone to die to cry.You can probably find something worth crying about within your own life.Sometimes we don't even have to look that closely.It could be sitting like a pink elephant in your own liliving room; if you feel disconnected from your partner,that is your pink elephant.You need to start crying about it now,since there is a chance that your tears might be able to loosen the disappointment that has clenched your hearts; and quite frankly,it is a chance worth taking.I say this because the loneliness of a disconnected relationship can feel as terrifying as death,which might be why Ihave chosen to tell you about what happened to Rebecca and what happened prior to that with Jennifer and me all in the same breath. Dan Saferstein　is a licensed psychologist in private practice and consults with individuals,management,and athletic erams,He Lives in Ann Arbor,Michigan,With his wife and three children